THEY THINK I AM JUST A COWGIRL BARBIE, BUT I RUN THIS WHOLE DAMN RANCH

I don’t usually let things get under my skin, but today? I nearly lost it.

It started at the feed store. I was there picking up mineral blocks and fencing wire, dressed in my usual gear—mud-stained boots, faded jeans, and my long blonde braid tucked under an old baseball cap. The guy behind the counter gave me this look, like I’d wandered in by mistake, and asked if I was looking for the gift shop.

I said, “Nope. Just here for the same supplies I’ve been buying every week for ten years.”

He laughed. Then he asked if my “husband” would be loading the truck.

I told him my husband took off five years ago and, funny enough, the cows didn’t seem to notice. I run 240 acres on my own—mending fences, hauling hay, delivering calves at two in the morning. But people see a woman with blonde hair and assume she’s just playing rancher.

Even my neighbors still act like I need supervision. Roy, the guy across the creek, pops by to “check in” on my fences like I didn’t graduate top of my ag science class. He says things like “Don’t overdo it, sweetheart” while I’m patching his busted water line in the dead of winter.

I usually brush it off. But lately, the condescension’s been piling up. Then I got home and found a note nailed to my barn. No name, no return address—just a single line: “I know what you did with the west pasture.”

That line hit me like a thunderclap. The west pasture’s my pride and joy. When my ex left, it was a mess—eroded soil, broken fencing, and a failed irrigation experiment that had left half of it unusable. I spent nearly a year restoring it. Reseeded the soil, fixed the water system, rebuilt the fencing by hand. It’s now the healthiest patch of land on my property.

So what did this note mean? A prank? A threat? Some kind of weird joke?

I couldn’t focus until I had answers. So I crossed the creek and asked Roy. He swore he didn’t leave the note, though he admitted there were rumors that I’d lined up a new buyer for my heifers. “You know how folks talk,” he said. “But if you’re switching buyers, that’s your call.”

I appreciated his honesty, but something still felt off.

The next morning, things took a darker turn. Pepper, my stocky Australian Shepherd mix, and I were doing our morning fence check when we spotted fresh footprints in the west pasture. Not mine. Not Roy’s. Smaller, lighter. Maybe someone my size. And the barn door had fresh scratch marks, like someone tried to pry the nails off.

That’s when I knew this wasn’t some harmless prank. Someone was snooping. Maybe trying to rattle me—or worse.

Later, at the diner in town, I told Lucia, my friend who runs a dairy farm up the road, about the note and the footprints. She listened closely and asked, “Could it be someone from your ex’s side trying to make a claim?”

It was a thought I hadn’t entertained, but it didn’t sit right. My ex hadn’t shown an ounce of interest in this place since he walked out. Still, I didn’t rule anything out.

That night, I spotted someone outside the barn. A shadow crouched by the door, trying to jimmy the lock. I shouted. Pepper charged. The figure bolted across the pasture and vanished into the dark. All I caught was a glimpse of dark hair and a slender frame. I was furious—and rattled.

I called Roy, Lucia, even old man Garrison. I let them know someone was creeping around, and then I called the sheriff’s department. A deputy came out the next day, took a look, and suggested I install trail cameras. I made that a top priority.

Two days later, Roy called me in a huff. “I saw someone skulking around your property line. Took pictures, then drove off in a truck with out-of-county plates. I wrote down the license number.”

I handed the info to the sheriff. A few days passed, then I got a call. The plates belonged to a private property consultant named Lillian Black. She worked for a development firm sniffing around rural land, trying to pressure folks into selling. They’d been quietly trespassing, gathering intel, and leaving creepy notes to spook owners.

Turns out they wanted my land—and figured a few threats would make me fold.

But I’m not the folding type.

I called a meeting with the local farming association, shared what I knew, and encouraged other landowners to report anything suspicious. Turns out, I wasn’t the only one targeted. With everyone speaking up, the developer lost its grip. The county commissioner got involved, and the project was shelved indefinitely.

When it was all said and done, I felt more than relief. I felt proud. Because I didn’t let fear drive me off my land. I didn’t try to weather it all alone either. I asked for help—and found a community ready to stand with me.

The next time I walked into that same feed store, the guy behind the counter just gave me a quiet nod. No wisecracks. No smug looks. Maybe he’d heard what happened. Maybe he just finally saw me for what I am.

And when I loaded my own truck, he didn’t offer to help. He didn’t need to. I had it handled.

So yeah, people see the long blonde braid and think “Cowgirl Barbie.” But I run this whole damn ranch. Every acre. Every fence post. Every early morning and midnight emergency.

This is my land. My fight. And I’ve earned every inch of it. I’ll keep running this ranch until the boots wear through and the sun sets on the last pasture. Because I’m not here to play the part. I’m here to stay.